To what extent has the male and female roles changed in the past 20 years?

In our country 20 years is very long time but for development country’s it is not too long.  At 20 years ago our social totally changed from Socialism to Capitalism it means everybody’s role was changed and they though gender race is not good idea we have to be equal. Before I start my essay I want tell you little about Mongolian role system’s history.  Other countries people think before 800 years ago Mongolian role system is men are make food, do a war, make house etc and female’s are only care about food, children and clean the house but it is totally different from those people’s opinion it means when Chingis Khaan did some decision about very big thing, his mother and his wife’s are helped to make a decision. In that time our countries men are know how Mongolian women are intelligent for example Manduhai Tsetsen quean (She is the most popular quean in our country because she to make a sacrifice for connect our country’s little piece of clan. She did her dream but not for too long because of someone kill her).In our history we have black memory it is Manchu’s oppression. It was continued about 300 years between that long time’s Manchu are doing many things for example: they want to delete our traditional, history, development and last important thing is they want decrease Mongolian women. Then they Manchu are to spread Mongolia Buddhism.  The Buddhism some rules is study very long in monastery and they can’t take a wife.  It means people are forget about the traditional and men are haven’t wife so they don’t know how is Mongolian women’s are intelligent so our countries role system was totally changed. Women’s are clean the house, take a care for children they can’t say anything when men’s are doing decisions, women mustn’t work for government if they want to work they can do simple works for example: dress-maker, malchin( who pet the animals), teacher, dairy farmer etc. That horrible role’s system was continuing until 1990 after that our role system was changed so I want write 3 important changes: First people agreed women can work for government, second: women are studying in university a lot it means women are more than men in university, last change is men and women’s role is getting equal in their family.

First change: Mongolian people agreed women can work for government because in our country women are more than men also now people don’t care sex and age they just care about how is her knowledge, how much is her experience. We changed our social to Capitalism and in Mongolia also going globalism very quickly. Women are studying very hard and they learn many things and women are made many organizations like the National Organization for Women, National Council of Women's Organizations etc. In my opinion those organization’s goals has been to take action to bring about equality for all women.  Now our countries people are going to be more intelligent it means they study about history, they respect the knowledge and they learn about how respect a women and some men are didn’t agree with this word: Women’s are only have to do clean the house and care about children. Then they want trust the women who had adept. In our counties there are some women who had working for government for example:  Oyun(she is the member of our parliament) , Gandi(she is minister of labor and social security  ) , Tsolmon(she is vice minister of health) etc.

Second change: In our country women are more than men in university like IFE, Mongolian national university etc. For example in our class there are 6 boys and 14 girls it means women are more think about future but men are thinks about present. Before 1990 our socials was socialism so everyone have to study and everybody must go to university however now we life other century we can do anything we want except bad things so if man want to work for their own family or wife or something else he can do it because it is him chose. However women are always thinks about future it means they know after 4 years later I will make money for my knowledge. Nowadays in Mongolia many men are drinks a lot, hit them wife’s so many women are broke up with them husband after that they study more for life. Also in countryside parents are want to take boy for help them work and the sent to daughter to school. 

Last change: There are some family’s role is getting equal it means many times ago men are work and women are clean and making a food but now it was changed totally different  for example: some family’s female is working and male is  cleaning house, making food and carrying about children. I know it is very funny but it is true. I want to tell about my family’s male and female’s role. In my family my parent s are working and both of them haven’t any time do to making a food or clean they house so who had a free time that person clean the house or make a food and they make a decision together and I know many family like us.

Conclusion:  I wrote my opinion and little bit about Mongolian role system. There is a only one reason our gender race is decrease it is our Mongolian people are getting more smarter but not all people there are some people use the old role system. When they people are getting smarter they know how Mongolian women are intelligent. I am very regret for foreign people thinks totally different but I hope one our country will be development and everyone will know who is Mongolian person 

My mother's trick when i get a nightmare

I think this is little story about when i was child. When i was child i got a nightmare twice a week. It was very difficult for me because i was very young and i don't want to sleep so my mother think about little trick. Trick was before i sleep my mother brought one bowl water and she said something but i can't remember exactly, she said to me like: Don't worry my son this water will take your nightmare something like that. After that she song for me some song and then she kissed me and said: good night my dear today you will sleep very well
I think it is just superstition because water can't take nightmares from my mind and i believed her trick because every children i think parent's words are true also this is very cute trick so when i have a child i will try it :D